they can't know who has it worse, the controlled or them the controller


As they are the ones controlling they can't understand the difference of who has it worse


And if they can only converse with others who control people they again can't understand the difference.



But from my perspective they are suffering as they get reinforced to be assholes and hateful, and emotionally numb and mean,
none of which will make them friends, and they might be mean to themselves, they get 


they might be bitter and jaded because they can only converse with others that control (if they are a.i. separated from their creator civilization)